Active Dating

Fantasy can be such an exciting and beautiful place. It’s a place where all dreams come true. A place where whatever I desire is possible.  Nobody to “tell us no”, just “let it go” and “all your dreams will come true” if...you “believe in magic.” Western culture...

Question I go out on many first dates and often get turned down. I wish I would at least be given a second chance. Am I doing something wrong? I know first impressions are important, but are they the only thing that matters? What could I be doing to improve my overall...

I recall the overwhelming feeling of walking into, yes, yet another singles event.  Here we go again!!! The nerves, the anxiety, the anticipation, who will be there? How do I look? Will HE finally be here? Will this just be another one of those events where I put...

While nobody goes out intending to act out a shidduch date gone bad skit, people do it all the time. Like every day!Why? Why self sabotage like that?   Typically people are clueless about how they come across on dates. All they know is that the shadchan calls...

Ever find yourself looking at someone from afar and putting them and their life on a grand pedestal, wishing you could have their life, and their relationships - that you could somehow be more like them? You then look at your own life and see problems. You look at...

People have varied opinions about double dating, or what I’ll call more broadly multiple dating. Some think it’s cruel, dishonest, inappropriate, and rude. Others believe it’s a time saver and that it helps the dating process move more quickly by providing the ability...

It is with great sensitivity and humility that I write about the topic of dating after divorce. There are never any judgments made on what another has gone through. What is most important is not where you came but where you are headed. We may even have to be willing...